reply to clare crocker
Posted by merlyn the capricorn on Friday, April 9 2:00 pm
What made you stay with this pig? he already told you he doesn't love you anymore worst still given you a disease! It sounds as if you have a very low self esteem otherwise you wouldn't let him treat you this way. Get rid of him right now and stop being a doormat. At the same time concentrate on working your self esteem by seeing a counsellor or attending short courses regarding stress management and make new friends by joining single club. Get to know your ownself, try to realise why you allow this pig to treat you like shit! you don't deserve it, I believe you are a very nice person and beautiful too. Be kind to yourself and think of your own sanity.If you don't act right now you will always be a victim, a sad creature, a lonely wife with no future. Dont just sit there and hope for the best because your relationship will never get better in fact it is over so if I were you if you are not ready to leave or cant get rid of him yet, start making changes of yourself right now by joining the gym, start exercising to make you look fabulous find someone to mind the kids whenever you can so that you can spend a time to yourself. Dont even give your husband a time instead invest more time to yourself and embrace yourself let him feel that you are strong and you will survive without him. If you must find another man one day please be very careful this time and do not rush into relationship. You have lots to think of right now, yourself and your self esteem and your kids. Get rid of your husband right now if you want to be happy in the future. Good luck and may God hear your prayer. your friend, merlyn
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